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April 16, 2025
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3-minute read
In youth sports, the scoreboard only tells part of the story. The real victories happen in moments of growth that shape not just athletes, but young people discovering who they truly are. For the Ardsley boys' basketball team, January brought three games that revealed the true champions within.
CHALLENGES COME IN MANY SHAPES AND SIZES
"Those kids are BIG!"
The concerned whisper from a parent before facing the Don Bosco Hawks captured the first test awaiting the boys. The Ardsley team—undersized but undeterred—initially shrank from the challenge, playing tentatively as they trailed through the early minutes. In the huddle, Coach Beba planted a seed: "Those boys are bigger than you, but they aren't better. Don't be afraid of them."
Simple words that unlocked something powerful. Adam and David had a combined 38 points, including a barrage of three-pointers that silenced the opposing crowd. The final score—Ardsley 48, Hawks 35—wasn't just a victory on the court. It was a victory over fear itself.
"They are bigger than you, they are stronger than you, they are older than you," Coach Beba reminded them afterward, "but you have more heart." Sometimes the biggest opponent isn't the one wearing the other jersey—it's the voice of doubt within.
ONE WIN DOESN’T MAKE A TEAM
Another test would come the following week against Scarsdale, when Ardsley found themselves down nine points entering the fourth quarter. Exhausted bodies and frustrated spirits might have surrendered, but something from that first victory had taken root.
Minute by minute, point by point, the deficit shrank. When Adam's final shot found the net as the buzzer sounded, completing the comeback, Coach Beba's words resonated beyond the moment: "Games like this are why you never give up." Final score: Ardsley 48, Scarsdale 46.
But the team’s January journey wasn't complete. Two weeks later, facing Scarsdale again, Ardsley confronted a different adversary—their own imperfection. Shots wouldn't fall. Defense lacked its usual sharpness. Yet, rather than surrendering to frustration, they leaned into something deeper than skill.
"We out-gritted them," Coach Beba explained after they pulled away for their third straight win. "That's what got us to victory."
These three victories weren't just additions to Ardsley's win column. They were chapters in a larger story about young people discovering their capacity to overcome—fear, doubt, adversity, and imperfection.
LESSONS ON AND OFF THE COURT
The lessons learned in these gymnasiums will long outlast the memory of final scores:
That being afraid is natural, but surrendering to fear is optional. That persistence creates possibilities the clock seems to deny. That even when your game isn't beautiful, your effort can be.
For these Ardsley boys, basketball is becoming more than a sport. It's a classroom where the subject is character, and the tests come in real-time. The real championship isn't the one handed out at season's end—it's the growth happening with every challenge faced.
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April 16, 2025
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3-minute read